What to do in an active shooter incident—beyond ‘Run, Hide, Fight’

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You probably know the phrase by now. It’s posted on the back of restroom doors at airports, on laminated cards in classrooms, on office intranet portals no one checks until they have to: Run. Hide. Fight. Three words designed to save your life. Three words that also reveal just how much has changed in how we live, gather, and imagine danger.

But let’s be honest—these words don’t land the same for everyone.

For a generation raised on school lockdown drills, mass shooting live streams, and blurry TikToks tagged with #activeincident, “Run, Hide, Fight” isn’t new. It’s rehearsed. Practiced. Absorbed through YouTube safety briefings and whispered instructions in classrooms during roleplay drills that sometimes feel more real than they should.

Yet no matter how many times it’s repeated, the gap between the theory and the reality always remains. No one tells you how much your hands will shake when trying to silence your phone. Or how your brain might freeze. Or how some people won’t run—because they’re waiting for a friend, or a parent, or because they’re terrified someone might mistake them for the threat.

We’ve normalized a ritual of preparedness. But we rarely talk about the emotional residue.

That’s what this piece is about. Not just what to do during an active-shooter situation—but what it means to carry the knowledge that one could happen. Anywhere. Anytime. And how the ritual of survival has bled into the rituals of daily life.

At school, lockdowns are as routine as recess. In the US, students practice hiding in closets and staying silent for minutes at a time, sometimes not knowing whether it’s a drill or not. In some classrooms, teachers have Go Bags—emergency kits with zip ties, flashlights, lollipops to keep kids quiet, and laced anxiety folded into every zipper.

The protocol is clear. You secure the door. Cover the windows. Keep everyone quiet. But the emotions? The ones that stay after the lights come back on and the drill ends? That part isn’t covered in training.

Outside the classroom, the landscape isn’t much different. At music festivals and shopping malls, in churches and corporate buildings, people scan for exits. Not always consciously, but habitually. It’s an unspoken choreography: Where would I go? Who would I help? Is my phone on silent?

We live with these calculations now. They’re not paranoia. They’re pattern recognition. And then there’s the digital layer—the one no safety protocol ever planned for.

In 2024 alone, more than a dozen mass shootings were captured live or recorded and uploaded before the scenes were secured. On TikTok, you can watch someone hiding in a stall while people scream in the hallway. On Twitter (or whatever it’s called this week), people try to verify if the shooter’s been caught, refreshing feeds that feed their fear.

Social media wasn’t designed to carry this kind of trauma. And yet, it does. In real time. At scale.

For survivors, these videos often become the first piece of evidence. For witnesses, the clips replay in their heads—sometimes even before they’ve made it home. And for everyone else? It becomes a kind of ambient fear. You weren’t there, but it feels like you were. You saw the angle. You heard the sirens. You read the comment section. Some experts call this secondhand trauma. Others call it the new normal.

It’s easy to forget how surreal this all is—until you talk to someone from another country. In places like Japan, Singapore, or Norway, where gun violence is rare and mass shootings are not part of civic life, the idea of practicing for armed attacks in primary schools feels dystopian. But in the US, it's part of the furniture. This isn’t just about gun control laws or partisan divides. It’s about how culture adapts to chronic fear.

Even in countries where mass shootings are less common, the template is spreading. Cities are adapting “active aggressor” drills in response to terrorism, gang violence, or lone-wolf incidents. Shopping malls test speaker systems. Hospitals teach staff how to barricade themselves between code blues. Preparedness has gone global—even if the causes remain local. But here’s what rarely gets said: You can follow every safety protocol and still feel unsafe.

Because it’s not just about surviving the incident. It’s about what happens afterward. The sleepless nights. The hyper-awareness in crowds. The quiet jumpiness when someone drops a tray or a balloon pops. The sense that you're waiting for something to happen, even when everything’s fine.

People don’t talk about the aftershocks because they’re less visible. But they’re just as real. And so, surviving becomes something bigger than those three words on a poster.

Surviving is texting your location to a friend in a whisper. It’s knowing which door locks from the inside. It’s keeping your lanyard ID out of sight because it might make you a target. It’s reading up on trauma responses when you can’t explain why you cry in parking lots now.

It’s also organizing. Testifying. Demanding something shift. Because while “Fight” might imply physical confrontation in the DHS manual, in real life, the fight is also emotional, systemic, and generational.

It’s survivors showing up to town halls asking why nothing changed after the last tragedy. It’s teachers asking why the only funding increase came in the form of ballistic whiteboards. It’s parents trying to explain to their kids why their backpack now has armor.

The truth is, there is no universal how-to for surviving an active shooter. There is only context. Age, geography, community, and privilege all shape the answer. Some people run. Some people freeze. Some people record. Some people don’t make it. So maybe the real shift we need isn’t in protocol—but in presence.

Presence, as in showing up for survivors without demanding they perform their pain. Presence, as in acknowledging the emotional labor that teachers, security guards, and frontline workers carry every day. Presence, as in not tuning out just because it didn’t happen to us this time. There’s also the need for digital presence—with responsibility.

Because social media may broadcast the crisis, but it also has the power to distort, retraumatize, and dehumanize. Posting video footage without consent doesn’t make you an advocate. It makes you a witness who forgot their boundaries. Algorithms don’t feel. But people do.

So what does being prepared look like now?

It looks like knowing the exits and the safe words. It looks like having mental health check-ins alongside fire drills. It looks like teaching kids not just to hide, but to ask for help afterwards. It looks like policy change, yes—but also community healing. And in many ways, it looks like refusing to accept this as normal, even while adapting to it.

That’s the cultural tension we’re living in. The ability to carry on and still want something better. The skill of processing grief without letting it calcify into numbness. The muscle of collective memory—so that every new name added to the list doesn’t erase the old ones.

Surviving is now a communal act. And so is remembering.

Run. Hide. Fight. That’s still the official guidance. But the real protocol has expanded. Now it includes:

Text. Breathe. Document. Grieve. Organize. Repeat.

It includes teachers who keep their doors open so students feel less isolated. It includes therapists who help survivors reconnect with their bodies after fear split them apart. It includes school janitors who walk students to the restroom during drills so they don’t feel alone.

None of this shows up in policy manuals. But it matters. Because culture is what carries us when protocols fail. It’s what shapes how we interpret safety—and who gets to feel it.

So if you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the news, or found yourself triple-checking the exit in a movie theater, or paused before answering a phone during a crowded event, know this: You’re not being dramatic. You’re adapting. And that adaptation is not weakness. It’s humanity trying to hold onto itself in a world that keeps testing its limits.

This isn’t just about surviving a shooter. It’s about surviving the knowledge that someone might try. It’s about figuring out how to live with the shadow of threat—and still find light. It’s about turning “Run, Hide, Fight” into something that doesn’t just save lives—but helps make them livable again. And that part? That’s on all of us.


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