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How to give and receive ang pows: what you should and shouldn't do

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  • Ang pow etiquette is crucial: Use new notes, present with both hands, and choose appropriate amounts ending in even numbers to show respect and bring good fortune.
  • Avoid common taboos: Never give empty ang pows, use white envelopes, or compare amounts, as these actions can be considered disrespectful or bring bad luck.
  • Receiving gracefully matters: Accept ang pows with both hands, express gratitude without opening immediately, and reciprocate with sincere well wishes to maintain harmony and show appreciation.

As the Lunar New Year approaches, the tradition of giving and receiving ang pows takes center stage in many Asian cultures. These vibrant red envelopes, filled with money, symbolize good luck and prosperity for the coming year. However, the practice of exchanging ang pows is steeped in cultural significance and governed by unwritten rules. Understanding the etiquette surrounding ang pows is crucial for both givers and recipients to ensure a harmonious celebration.

Ang pows, also known as red packets or hongbao, have a rich history dating back centuries. The color red symbolizes good fortune and wards off evil spirits in Chinese culture. The act of giving ang pows is believed to bestow blessings upon the recipient and bring good luck to the giver.

"Ang pow giving is a way to spread prosperity and blessings during the festive season," explains cultural expert Dr. Lee Ming Hui. "It's not just about the money inside, but the gesture of goodwill and the continuation of tradition."

Must-Dos for Giving Ang Pows

1. Use crisp, new notes

When preparing ang pows, it's essential to use crisp, new banknotes. Many people visit banks before the Lunar New Year to exchange old notes for new ones specifically for this purpose. Using new notes shows respect and care for the recipient.

2. Choose appropriate amounts

The amount of money placed in an ang pow can vary depending on factors such as your relationship with the recipient and your financial situation. However, it's generally advisable to avoid amounts ending in odd numbers or the number four, which is considered unlucky in Chinese culture.

"Even numbers are preferred, with the number eight being particularly auspicious," notes financial advisor Tan Siew Ling. "Common amounts range from RM10 to RM100, but it ultimately depends on your budget and the recipient's age or status."

3. Present the ang pow with both hands

When giving an ang pow, it's customary to present it with both hands as a sign of respect. This gesture demonstrates sincerity and the importance of the act.

4. Offer ang pows to unmarried individuals

Traditionally, ang pows are given by married individuals to those who are single, including children and unmarried adults. However, in some families, the practice has evolved to include giving ang pows to elderly relatives as a show of filial piety.

Taboos to Avoid When Giving Ang Pows

1. Never give empty ang pows

Giving an empty ang pow is considered extremely rude and disrespectful. It's better not to give an ang pow at all than to present an empty one.

2. Avoid using white envelopes

While red is the traditional color for ang pows, other colors like pink or gold are sometimes used. However, white envelopes should never be used as they are associated with funerals and mourning in Chinese culture.

3. Don't give ang pows before the Lunar New Year

It's considered bad luck to give ang pows before the actual start of the Lunar New Year. Wait until the first day of the new year or during subsequent visits to distribute your ang pows.

4. Refrain from comparing amounts

It's considered impolite to openly compare the amounts given in ang pows. This practice can lead to feelings of embarrassment or resentment among both givers and recipients.

Etiquette for Receiving Ang Pows

1. Accept with both hands

Just as ang pows should be given with both hands, they should also be received with both hands. This shows gratitude and respect for the giver.

2. Express thanks, but don't open immediately

When receiving an ang pow, it's important to express gratitude to the giver. However, it's considered impolite to open the ang pow immediately in front of the giver. Wait until you're in private to check the contents.

"Opening an ang pow in front of the giver can be seen as greedy or ungrateful," cautions etiquette expert Madam Wong Sook Yee. "It's best to graciously accept and save it for later."

3. Reciprocate with well wishes

While monetary gifts are appreciated, it's equally important to reciprocate with sincere well wishes for the giver. Common phrases include "Gong Xi Fa Cai" (wishing you prosperity) or "Xin Nian Kuai Le" (Happy New Year).

4. Don't refuse an ang pow

Refusing an ang pow is considered extremely rude and may offend the giver. If you feel uncomfortable accepting money, you can politely decline at first but accept if the giver insists.

Modern Trends in Ang Pow Giving

While traditional practices remain important, modern trends have begun to influence ang pow customs in recent years.

Digital ang pows

With the rise of digital payment platforms, some people have started giving "e-ang pows" through mobile apps. While convenient, this practice is still not as widely accepted as physical ang pows.

"E-ang pows are gaining popularity among younger generations," observes tech analyst Jason Lim. "However, many still prefer the tangible aspect of physical red packets, especially for important family gatherings."

Eco-friendly options

As environmental awareness grows, some individuals are opting for reusable ang pow envelopes made from fabric or other sustainable materials. These can be a thoughtful alternative to traditional paper envelopes.

Creative designs

While traditional red envelopes remain popular, some people are choosing ang pows with unique designs or personalized touches. These can range from envelopes featuring popular characters to custom-made designs reflecting the giver's personality.

Ang Pow Etiquette in Different Cultures

While ang pows are most commonly associated with Chinese culture, similar practices exist in other Asian countries, each with its own set of customs and etiquette.

Malaysia

In Malaysia, ang pows are given not only during Chinese New Year but also during other festive occasions like Hari Raya and Deepavali. The practice transcends ethnic boundaries, symbolizing the multicultural nature of Malaysian society.

Vietnam

In Vietnam, red envelopes are called "li xi" and are typically given to children by adults. The amount is usually smaller compared to Chinese ang pows, with the focus being more on the gesture than the monetary value.

Korea

Korean "sebaetdon" or New Year's money is given to children after they perform a traditional bow to their elders. The money is often accompanied by words of wisdom or encouragement for the year ahead.

The practice of giving and receiving ang pows is a beautiful tradition that strengthens family bonds and community ties. By understanding and respecting the etiquette surrounding ang pows, we can ensure that this custom continues to bring joy and blessings for generations to come.

As we celebrate the Lunar New Year, let us remember that the true value of ang pows lies not in the amount of money they contain, but in the love, respect, and good wishes they represent. Whether you're a giver or recipient, approaching ang pow exchanges with sincerity and cultural sensitivity will contribute to a more meaningful and harmonious celebration.

In the words of cultural preservationist Datuk Chang Kim Loong, "Ang pows are more than just monetary gifts. They are a tangible expression of our hopes for prosperity, happiness, and good fortune in the coming year. By honoring the traditions and etiquette associated with ang pows, we keep our cultural heritage alive and vibrant."


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