How divorce impacts baby boomers' financial security

Image Credits: UnsplashImage Credits: Unsplash
  • Divorce rates among baby boomers are rising, leading to significant financial challenges in retirement.
  • Divorced retirees, especially women, often face lower retirement savings, reduced monthly income, and greater financial vulnerability.
  • Proactive financial planning, including maintaining individual retirement accounts and staying informed about household finances, is crucial for protecting retirement security in the event of divorce.

In recent years, a growing number of baby boomers have found themselves facing an unexpected challenge to their retirement plans: divorce. As the divorce rate among older adults continues to rise, many are discovering that the financial implications of ending a marriage can have far-reaching consequences on their retirement security. This article explores the impact of divorce on retirement preparedness, with a particular focus on baby boomers and the unique challenges they face.

The Rising Tide of Late-Life Divorces

The phenomenon of late-life divorce, often referred to as "gray divorce," has been steadily increasing over the past few decades. A 2022 study published in the Journal of Gerontology found that from 1990 to 2010, the divorce rate for adults 65 and older nearly tripled. Among adults ages 50 to 64, the divorce rate per 1,000 rose from 4.85 in 1970 to 12.72 in 2019. This trend has significant implications for retirement planning and financial security in later life.

The Financial Impact of Divorce on Retirement

Divorce can have a profound effect on an individual's financial situation, particularly when it comes to retirement savings and income. An analysis of data from the Census Bureau's 2023 Survey of Income and Program Participation reveals some stark realities:

Lower Retirement Account Balances: On average, married retirees have over $100,000 more in their 401(k) and savings accounts than divorced retirees. This substantial difference can be attributed to the division of assets during divorce proceedings and the potential loss of access to shared accounts.

Reduced Monthly Retirement Income: The average income of a married retiree is $2,577 a month, considering money they might receive through pensions, Social Security, retirement accounts, and insurance benefits. In contrast, a divorced retiree takes home just $1,940 a month. This significant disparity can have a major impact on quality of life during retirement.

Gender Disparities: The financial impact of divorce is often more severe for women. According to the analysis, divorced women have, on average, around $1,800 a month in retirement income, while divorced men receive nearly $300 more monthly. This gender gap is further exacerbated by historical factors such as the gender pay gap and traditional gender roles that may have limited women's workforce participation and savings potential.

Real-Life Consequences: Stories of Divorced Retirees

The financial challenges faced by divorced retirees are not just statistics; they represent real people struggling to make ends meet in their golden years. Consider the story of Libby Mintzer, a 73-year-old divorcee living in Tampa, Florida:

"I always thought of everybody else before me," Mintzer said. "And I would tell any woman now: 'Don't do it.'"

Mintzer, who had a successful 30-year career as a paralegal and was often the main household income earner, now lives on just $1,600 monthly Social Security income. After her divorce in the early 2010s, she lost all assets, including the house on the river and shared investments, and doesn't receive any spousal support.

Another example is Kathryn Clark, an 80-year-old woman living near the Bay Area in a low-income housing unit. Clark, who divorced at age 50 after a 30-year marriage, left the relationship with no money or assets:

"When the divorce came, I had nothing," she said. "I just walked away with half of what was in the bank account — which couldn't have been more than a couple hundred dollars."

Clark now lives check to check on Social Security, has no savings, and struggles to afford groceries on just $23 a month from SNAP.

Factors Contributing to Financial Vulnerability

Several factors contribute to the financial vulnerability of divorced retirees, particularly women:

Traditional Gender Roles: Many baby boomer women may have spent significant portions of their lives as stay-at-home parents or held primary domestic responsibilities, limiting their workforce participation and retirement savings potential.

Gender Pay Gap: Even when women do work, they often earn less than men for the same job, further impacting their ability to save for retirement.

Financial Literacy Gaps: If one spouse has been primarily responsible for managing finances during the marriage, the other may be left in the dark about their overall financial situation.

Loss of Economies of Scale: Divorce often means the loss of shared expenses and the financial benefits of a two-income household, making it more challenging to maintain the same standard of living.

Protecting Retirement Assets in Divorce

While divorce can have a significant impact on retirement preparedness, there are steps individuals can take to protect their financial future:

Understand Your Financial Situation: Melody Evans, a vice president wealth management advisor at TIAA, emphasizes the importance of financial literacy: "When I hear about people having a really hard time or feeling like they missed assets during a divorce, generally, it's because they were not fully aware of what assets the couple had."

Consider a Prenuptial Agreement: While not foolproof, a prenuptial agreement can help protect assets in the event of a divorce.

Explore Asset Division Options: During divorce proceedings, consider options such as splitting 401(k) and Roth IRA funds, or basing Social Security benefits on the higher-earning spouse's salary.

Seek Professional Advice: Working with a financial advisor or wealth manager can help individuals better understand their financial situation and make informed decisions during and after divorce.

Planning for a Secure Retirement

The rising trend of late-life divorces underscores the importance of proactive retirement planning for all individuals, regardless of marital status. Mintzer offers this advice based on her experience:

"Don't rely on someone else — whether it's a husband or wife or children. From the day you turn 18 and you start working, start preparing for that day when you're not going to be working anymore."

Key steps for securing your financial future include:

  • Start saving early and consistently
  • Educate yourself about personal finance and retirement planning
  • Maintain your own retirement accounts and emergency savings
  • Stay informed about your household's overall financial situation
  • Consider working with a financial advisor to develop a comprehensive retirement strategy

The impact of divorce on retirement preparedness is a growing concern, particularly for baby boomers who may find themselves facing financial challenges later in life. By understanding the potential risks and taking proactive steps to protect their financial future, individuals can work towards a more secure retirement, regardless of their marital status.

As society continues to grapple with the implications of rising divorce rates among older adults, it's crucial that financial education, retirement planning resources, and support systems evolve to address the unique needs of this demographic. By raising awareness and promoting financial literacy, we can help ensure that all retirees have the opportunity to enjoy their golden years with financial security and peace of mind.


Financial Planning United States
Image Credits: Unsplash
Financial PlanningJuly 9, 2025 at 3:30:00 PM

Why vibe-based budgeting is catching on with Gen Z

A funny thing is happening in personal finance: people are making money decisions not just based on spreadsheets, but on vibes. Seriously. The...

Financial Planning Singapore
Image Credits: Unsplash
Financial PlanningJuly 8, 2025 at 5:00:00 PM

Warning signs you might be approaching bankruptcy without realizing it

In Singapore, bankruptcy isn’t just a legal status. It’s a sign that the personal financial system you’ve been relying on—credit cards, bank loans,...

Financial Planning United States
Image Credits: Unsplash
Financial PlanningJuly 8, 2025 at 3:30:00 PM

Is 'revenge saving' helping or hurting your financial plan?

Some people cope with stress by spending more. Others cope by spending less—but not always for the reasons you'd expect. In recent months,...

Financial Planning United States
Image Credits: Unsplash
Financial PlanningJuly 8, 2025 at 12:00:00 AM

Why the weak dollar isn’t stopping Americans from traveling

A last-minute summer flight to Rome might cost less than it did last year—but once you land, your dollar doesn’t stretch nearly as...

Financial Planning United States
Image Credits: Unsplash
Financial PlanningJuly 6, 2025 at 1:00:00 PM

Why timing your inheritance matters more than the amount

You’ve probably heard the headlines: Baby boomers are about to pass down the greatest wealth transfer in history. We’re talking trillions—an estimated $84...

Financial Planning United States
Image Credits: Unsplash
Financial PlanningJuly 5, 2025 at 9:00:00 PM

Blunt comments about divorce and financial failure

Kevin O’Leary, the Canadian entrepreneur and Shark Tank star known for his no-nonsense style, recently stirred public debate by calling divorce “a stupid...

Financial Planning United States
Image Credits: Unsplash
Financial PlanningJuly 5, 2025 at 9:00:00 PM

How Trump tariffs are making it harder for Americans to pay down debt

When Donald Trump re-entered the White House, he wasted no time returning to a familiar economic lever: tariffs. Promoted as tools to strengthen...

Financial Planning United States
Image Credits: Unsplash
Financial PlanningJuly 5, 2025 at 2:30:00 PM

How to break free from payday loan debt—for good

You didn’t plan to end up here. Payday loans always start as a stopgap, a bridge over a cash-flow gap, a short-term fix...

Financial Planning Singapore
Image Credits: Unsplash
Financial PlanningJuly 2, 2025 at 6:00:00 PM

Reasons for personal debt that no one talks about

Most personal debt doesn’t start with a financial emergency. It builds slowly—from a dinner out, a holiday booking, a flash sale purchase—and accelerates...

Financial Planning
Image Credits: Unsplash
Financial PlanningJuly 1, 2025 at 4:30:00 PM

Financial repression is back—and this time, it’s global

The tariffs unleashed under President Donald Trump may have dominated the headlines, but the true turning point in global economic strategy wasn’t a...

Financial Planning United States
Image Credits: Unsplash
Financial PlanningJuly 1, 2025 at 12:00:00 PM

The decline of coupons in a high-cost economy

There was a time when clipping a Sunday insert or scouring the web for promo codes felt like a badge of honor. Shaving...

Financial Planning Malaysia
Image Credits: Unsplash
Financial PlanningJune 29, 2025 at 8:30:00 AM

How housing and car loans are fueling Malaysia’s household debt crisis

The dream of home and car ownership has long symbolized upward mobility in Malaysia. But for many households, that dream is now weighed...

Load More