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His ex is set to inherit his $1 million retirement account after a 1989 breakup

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  • Regularly update beneficiary designations on retirement accounts to reflect current relationships and intentions.
  • The SECURE Act requires non-spouse beneficiaries to withdraw the entire balance of an inherited IRA within 10 years.
  • Consulting with a financial advisor can help navigate the tax implications and distribution requirements of inherited retirement accounts.

In a surprising twist of fate, a man’s ex-girlfriend from 1989 is poised to inherit his $1 million retirement account. This situation underscores the critical importance of regularly updating beneficiary designations on retirement accounts and other financial documents.

The Importance of Keeping Beneficiary Designations Updated

When it comes to retirement accounts, the designated beneficiary is paramount. This designation overrides any instructions in a will or trust. As highlighted by the SECURE Act, the rules governing inherited retirement accounts can be complex, especially for non-spousal beneficiaries. The SECURE Act mandates that non-spouse beneficiaries must withdraw the entire balance of an inherited IRA within 10 years of the original owner's death.

A Costly Oversight

In this case, the man had not updated his beneficiary designation since his breakup in 1989. As a result, his ex-girlfriend remains the named beneficiary, set to receive the entire $1 million. This oversight could have been avoided with regular reviews and updates to his financial documents. According to Fidelity Investments, properly designated beneficiaries can avoid probate and ensure that assets are distributed according to the account owner's current wishes.

Tax Implications and Financial Planning

The tax implications of inheriting a retirement account can be significant. Traditional IRAs require beneficiaries to pay income taxes on distributions, while Roth IRAs offer tax-free withdrawals if the account has been held for at least five years. For non-spousal beneficiaries, the 10-year rule can lead to substantial tax bills if the account is large. Consulting with a financial advisor can help beneficiaries navigate these complexities and plan for the tax impact.

The Role of the SECURE Act

The SECURE Act has brought significant changes to the rules governing inherited retirement accounts. For deaths occurring on or after January 1, 2020, non-spouse beneficiaries must withdraw the entire account balance within 10 years. However, certain eligible designated beneficiaries, such as surviving spouses, disabled individuals, and minor children, are exempt from this rule.

Lessons Learned

This story serves as a cautionary tale for anyone with retirement accounts. Regularly reviewing and updating beneficiary designations is crucial to ensure that your assets are distributed according to your current wishes. As financial situations and relationships change, so too should your financial documents. Consulting with an estate planning attorney or financial advisor can help you avoid costly mistakes and ensure that your retirement savings are passed on to the intended beneficiaries.

Inheriting a retirement account comes with its own set of rules and tax implications. The SECURE Act has added new layers of complexity, making it more important than ever to stay informed and proactive about your financial planning. By keeping beneficiary designations up to date, you can avoid unintended consequences and ensure that your retirement savings are distributed according to your wishes.


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