How to persuade your manager to approve your time off request

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  • Choose a time that minimizes disruption and prepare a detailed coverage plan.
  • Frame your request respectfully and highlight the benefits of taking time off.
  • Be open to discussing alternative dates or arrangements if your initial request cannot be approved.

Taking time off from work is essential for maintaining a healthy work-life balance and preventing burnout. However, convincing your boss to approve your time off request can be challenging. Here are some effective strategies to help you secure that much-needed break.

Before making your request, familiarize yourself with your company's time off policy. This includes understanding how much paid time off (PTO) you have accrued, the notice period required, and any blackout dates when time off requests are typically denied. Reviewing the employee handbook or consulting with HR can provide valuable insights.

Plan Ahead and Choose the Right Time

Timing is crucial when requesting time off. Avoid asking during peak project periods or when your boss is under significant stress. Instead, choose a time when your absence will have the least impact on the team's productivity. As Kathi Elster, an executive coach, suggests, "Be considerate and find a time when you know your boss would be in the right frame of mind".

Prepare a Coverage Plan

One of the main concerns bosses have about approving time off is how your work will be covered in your absence. To address this, prepare a detailed coverage plan outlining how your responsibilities will be managed while you're away. Identify colleagues who can take over specific tasks and ensure they are briefed and prepared. This proactive approach demonstrates your commitment to minimizing disruption.

Communicate Clearly and Respectfully

When making your request, be clear and respectful. Instead of presenting your request as a demand, frame it as a question. For example, you could say, "I have some vacation time coming, and I’d like to take a week to travel with my family. Would the week of [dates] be a good time?" This approach shows respect for your boss's authority and willingness to discuss alternative options if necessary .

Highlight the Benefits of Time Off

Emphasize the benefits of taking time off, not just for yourself but for the company as well. Research has shown that taking breaks can boost productivity, creativity, and overall job satisfaction. A circumstance that may continue for a considerable amount of time is that millions of people have been forced to embrace remote work arrangements as a result of the relentless expansion of the COVID-19 virus. In this new work arrangement, there are a great many different obstacles that are presented... Because of these obstacles, stress levels might drastically increase, which can ultimately lead to burnout. Taking a break from your work allows you to come back to your job feeling refreshed and more productive.

Provide Ample Notice

Giving your boss plenty of notice is essential. The more time you provide, the easier it will be for your boss to accommodate your request and arrange for coverage. Aim to make your request at least a few weeks in advance, if not more. This shows that you are considerate of the team's needs and allows for better planning.

Be Flexible and Open to Alternatives

Sometimes, despite your best efforts, your boss may not be able to approve your request due to unavoidable circumstances. Be prepared to discuss alternative dates or arrangements, such as working remotely for part of your vacation or splitting your time off into shorter periods. Flexibility can increase the likelihood of reaching a mutually agreeable solution.

Follow Up in Writing

After discussing your request with your boss, follow up with a written confirmation. This can be an email summarizing the agreed-upon dates and any coverage plans discussed. Having a written record ensures clarity and helps avoid any misunderstandings later on.


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